By Rainbow Services Librarian Hal
Our understanding of gender and the language we use to describe it is constantly evolving. Often, we learn a limiting definition of gender that tries to put everyone into just two categories—boy or girl.
Those categories come with many unfair expectations about the activities and interests we’re allowed to enjoy, how we’re supposed to dress or style our hair, how we’re supposed to express our emotions, and so many other aspects of our lives. A binary definition of gender excludes and harms so many of our friends, neighbors, and family.
In truth, gender is an infinite landscape that expands both between and far beyond the concepts of boy and girl. Exploring gender identity is valuable both as an opportunity for self-discovery and as a way to build empathy.
Starting conversations about gender identity with the young people you care for can sometimes feel scary or overwhelming. If you’re feeling nervous, you aren’t alone. We receive requests all the time for books about gender identity and what it means to be transgender. Sharing stories is a great place to begin.
Below are some resources to help. You also can check out our Transgender Resource Collection.
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About Hal
Hal is a children’s librarian who specializes in serving LGBTQ+ young people and their allies. He is passionate about identity exploration through collaborative storytelling and imaginative play.